About Mistress Aja

I may look like the girl next door, but your gut tells you there’s something more…

I am a divinely eccentric Asian Dominatrix based in NYC. My athletic and intoxicating body has mass appeal but my mind is quite particular. I have a curious and adventurous disposition that extends to all reaches of life, including you. I want to know who you are and what makes you tick, so long as you make my pleasure your top priority. When my assured voice brushes against your ear and the graze of my nails lingers on your skin, you will realize why you have given yourself to my will. Time with me is precious and my attention is the ultimate privilege.

As a creative and playful Domme,

role play comes to me naturally. The personalized scenes I create allow even the shyest of submissives to get lost in my narrative. I instinctively seek moments of laughter, even if they are quietly internal. Born and raised on the East Coast, my dry sense of humor makes room for the ridiculous too. Playing with verbal and situational tormenting is a delightful experience for me and I enjoy discovering where my creativity can take us in a scene. My unique perspective cannot be replicated and I approach every submissive with a distinct flavor. Moving in and out of a soft to strict disposition comes to me with ease.  Some submissives evoke a more nurturing presence from me.  At other times, my sadistic nature takes over.  I revel in my ability to manipulate your desires and emotions, or your body’s ability to endure my physical power. I find release in the transfer of force and energy.  Whether it’s through ball busting, whippings, or less traditional forms of punishment, the disciplinarian in me is quenched by your desire to please and improve. I am exquisite at learning about a person and how to remold them into my ideal and you will be grateful to relinquish your control to me.  I will delight in turning you into a submissive that is distinctly Mine.

Participating in my world enriches the quality of your life when we’re together and apart.

To be present in our body and connected to our shadows is a gift that can expand other unknown parts of our life and selfhood. I want to see how your surrender and my guidance impacts our lives for the better. For that, I prefer to build relationships with submissives who desire an ongoing dynamic and genuine power exchange. Now, are you ready to find out what I’ll do with you?